Did you know that most people don’t dream big enough? It’s true.

We often limit ourselves to what feels safe and attainable. But here’s the thing: your dreams should be so big they scare you.

When we avoid taking risks, failing, and making mistakes, we stay in our comfort zone. It feels safe, but it’s really a place of stagnation.

Research shows that the body processes fear and excitement almost the same way.

The rush of adrenaline, the heart beating faster, the heightened awareness—all of these are the same whether you're about to give a big presentation or you're on a roller coaster.

The difference lies in our interpretation.

This means that the fear you feel when contemplating your big dreams can actually be a sign that you’re on the right path.

Instead of seeing fear as a barrier, you can reframe it as excitement—a signal that you’re about to embark on something truly transformative.

By recognizing that fear and excitement are physically identical, you can use those feelings as a driving force to move you forward.

Changing this perspective can help you embrace bigger dreams and take the necessary risks to achieve them.

So next time you feel that rush of adrenaline thinking about a big, scary dream, remember: it’s your body’s way of preparing you for something amazing.

Use that energy to get out of your comfort zone and into a place of growth and possibility.

Action Steps

This week, I challenge you to identify one dream that truly scares you. The one that makes you think, "No way, it's impossible!" Write it down. Explore it. And ask yourself:

  • What's the worst that could happen if I pursued this?

  • What's the BEST that could happen?

  • What's one small step I could take today to move towards this dream?

  • How can I achieve this faster than I think is possible?

"The size of your dreams must always exceed your current capacity to achieve them. If your dreams do not scare you, they are not big enough." – Ellen Johnson Sirleaf

That’s all for now. See you next time. 

Celina Unkles

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